{"text":"Ladies, don't lower yourself to fight over a man or compete with other women for one. It's not classy, immature, and a waste of time. Instead, use that energy and time wisely by achieving goals and being a better you. This way, you attract someone better than a man that doesn't see the jewel that you are. Have standards always.","author":"April Mae Monterrosa","tags":["attraction","dating","energy","goals","jerks","men","relationships-advice","standards","women"],"id":7523,"author_id":"April+Mae+Monterrosa"}